What can I get out of joining the Order of the Eastern Star?

I would like to know what can I gain by joining the Order of the Eastern Star?

What do they talk about in their meetings; what do they learn; and why would someone want to become one?

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Apr 09, 2012
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starstarstarstarstar 		What you can expect from joining?
by: Associate Matron

What you can gain depends on how much you actively try to gain. Easter Star is a wonderful place to feel like you are part of a family. You can always find help, advice, friendship, etc.

Unfortunately, a lot of people use age as an excuse not to join or change. The lessons you learn in Star can help anyone of any age, in any circumstance, and every walk of life.

In way of what is discussed in meetings...it is just a meeting. Where you get the benefit is what you do for your brothers and sisters and also for anyone else that is ever in need. A meeting is just a meeting. But friendship and the blessing of helping others is what is important.

As for me, I am 22. I am now in one of the many leadership positions in my chapter. I have become much more confident in my ability to work with and for others. I think anybody can improve themselves through Eastern Star. They just have to apply themselves.
Apr 10, 2012
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starstarstarstarstar 		very nice people
by: S & I

I joined the star. I would be considered middle-aged but I still feel like I'm 17. The people I have met in the star are very kind and friendly. I haven't attended for the last few months though because I don't understand the point of the stories. Also, the meetings take forever and I find it difficult to pay attention to it for long periods. I believe I would hurt the feelings of all those kind people if I asked about the real meaning of the stories. Oh and I am really disappointed that my husband became a mason because that group does not allow women to join and I feel that by attending, he supports gender discrimination. So, right now I am boycotting all masonic groups and any of his masonic functions that include wives/partners/girlfriends.

I got the opportunity to meet many very kind people by joining the star.
Dec 06, 2015
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starstarstarstarstar 		Degrees
by: Anonymous

What does the different degrees mean a what difference does it make to have one degree or another my initiation is feb
Mar 10, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		Eastern Star
by: Anonymous

I wanted to become Mason myself but soon found out that women couldn't be one but they had Eastern Star but then I found out that to become Eastern Star, you have to be Mason wife, or family member. Can someone please guide me correctly and in fact let me know how to go about this? [email protected]
Jul 25, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		Desire to be an Eastern Star?
by: [email protected]

If you are in the Atlanta area I would be glad to point you in the right direction of becoming an Eastern Star. Desire is the first step.
Aug 08, 2016
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starstarstarstarstar 		Brief guide to joining the Masons.
by: Dinguss Paynuss

The point of joining is usualy because you want to. Either a parent or grandparent was a member. It's like carrying on tradition. You don't want to see it die since it provided someone you knew with another way to measure your faith and actions.

I thought having Jesus tattooed on my neck would keep me out. It didn't. So men, when you join you will be Entered Apprentice (1st degree), Fellowcraft (2nd degree). When you are given your 3rd degree and only then will you be a Master Mason. Keep in mind there may be some things you will have to commit to memory in order to advance through these degrees. This is called a Catechism. There are subtle difference between Free and Accepted Masons and Ancient, Free and Accepted. You are learning and remembering the standard Masonic initiation protocol.

The learning the point behind the stories is basically what it's all about. You get to look and learn the more you see things and hear them.

Now you are a Master Mason. You can help people join Masonic bodies and travel to other lodges plus meet tons of people.
Mar 23, 2017
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starstarstarstarstar 		The army didn't work, how bout Eastern Stars
by: Jbb

I've been looking for something to be apart of since I was 10 years old. Girl Scouts, dance groups, performance arts school, army and even marriage. Im want to be dedicated to a cause thats dedicated to me. Although unconditional love, acceptance is a bit far fetch, I can't abandon that desire. I want to know if the Eastern Stars is the place that's right for me.
Apr 02, 2017
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by: Anonymous

I just clic the name easternStar on Google .And i read a little about it .its been a month since i heard that name.
I dont speak a good english.I just want to tell that :I am a women and I am a Freemason for years.
May 08, 2017
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starstarstarstarstar 		I interested in becoming an Eastern star
by: Anonymous

Hey I am interested in becoming an eastern star and I live in Easton Pa please contact me if you are an eastern star around my area and give me details in becoming one thank you tonya07017 "at" gmail.com
May 09, 2017
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starstarstarstarstar 		Re: Posting personal information...
by: Tim

Dear Anon,

Please be advised that when you post your e-mail address on a public site, such as this, you have no idea or control over who may actually contact you. They may be decent, honest, well-intentioned folk, or they may be the opposite of such. At the very least your e-mail address will likely be scraped from the site by spam-bots and you'll start receiving spam e-mails. (I have altered your e-mail address to help with this. If you wish it removed or otherwise changed just use our Contact Us page in the navigation menu.)

Your best bet for information regarding the Order of the Eastern Star will be to contact the Grand Chapter of OES in your State. Here is the address for the Pennsylvania Grand Chapter:
http://paoes.org/

I hope this proves helpful. Good luck to you.

Cordially,

Tim
Sep 10, 2017
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starstarstarstarstar 		JOINING EASTERN STAR
by: Anonymous

I would like to join the Eastern Stars! But I'm not related to anyone! I am a Marine! Getting ready to be a part of the American Legion! I am a part of the Marine Corps League! Is there anyway I can be a part of the Eastern Stars? I would appreciate it if someone could please respond to my question. Thank you! [email protected]
Oct 21, 2017
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starstarstarstarstar 		Becoming a member
by: Anonymous

I would like to join the Eastern Star if u can point me in the right direction plz I'm from Elkhart Indiana
Oct 26, 2017
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starstarstarstarstar 		Eastern Star
by: MS Fleming

I was interested in join the Eastern Star. My grandfather was a 33rd degree Master Mason and I was informed that I could join the Eastern Star through affiliation. Every Star I have met has been very classy and dignified and I feel it would be a good thing in my life to be apart of a bigger "family". I live in North Carolina and was wondering where I could find a local chapter to contact.
Nov 27, 2017
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by: Amanda Patton

If you're in SE Michigan and have questions about OES, I am happy to answer them! You can visit our chapters facebook page at facebook.com/Ashlar378/
Feel free to message us there and I will get back with you asap!.
Dec 16, 2017
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starstarstarstarstar 		Curious about membership
by: Anonymous

My mother, now deceased, told me that her mother was in the OES and was one of the "points" of the star ("Ruth"?) and that her grandmother was a past OES Matron. Her aunt was also a "point" and my mom attended an OES meeting with her in NYC as a young woman.I have a diamond ring that my g-grandmother received as a gift for being Matron. My paternal grandfather was also a Mason. Do these familial associations qualify me for membership in the OES? I don't really know anything about it but am curious.
Dec 24, 2017
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starstarstarstarstar 		How do I join
by: Kaycee Cris

I’m interested in becoming an Eastern Star my grandfather by marriage is a Freemason can someone point me in the direction to join I’m in Rochester ny
Jan 07, 2018
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by: Tim

Greetings all.

The best way to get specific information regarding the Order of the Eastern Star in your area is to do a Web search for (chapter order of the eastern star) and then add the name of your city and state. If there is a Chapter in or near your city they should have a Web site.

Alternatively, you can search Grand Chapter OES and add the name of the state in which you live. The Grand Chapter website should have a function to help locate a local Chapter near you.

If you would like to start at the top and work your way down, here is the address for the General Grand Chapter Order of the Eastern Star:

http://www.easternstar.org/

I hope this proves useful to you, and I hope you find that for which you seek.

Fraternally,

Tim
Jan 09, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Joining the order.
by: An Eastern Star

For the woman in New York for membership find a chapter local to where you live.

see info via http://oesny.org

New York is the only state a woman can join without the blood relation to master mason requirement.

For States outside of New York:

http://www.easternstar.org
May 17, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Member
by: Anonymous

How can I go about addressing a member if I am interested in becoming a member?
May 17, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		I am interested in becoming an Eastern Star
by: Anonymous

Hello, I am interested in becoming an Eastern Star. I am in the Alexander City, Alabama area which is near Auburn and Birmingham Alabama. Can anyone lead me to the right people please? Thank you!
May 28, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		I would like to join
by: Anonymous

I would like to join I live in Savannah GA. My dad was a mason I believe he may have quit will I still be able to join
May 29, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Desired Interest
by: Elle

Hi all, I reside in the Atlanta area and I am interested in learning more about OES and becoming a member. My email is [email protected] If anyone is willing to provide help, please contact me. Thank you.
Jun 04, 2018
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by: Anonymous

Hello to the young lady in Savannah! I'd advise you to look up Order of the Eastern Star District #1 (that's Savannah!) Our District Worthy Matron is DWM Magwood. We are both members of Prince Hall Chapter #258 here in Savannah. She can answer all of your questions!

Sister Ericka Walden
PH Chapter #258
Jun 20, 2018
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starstar 		Where Are the Answers?
by: Anonymous

I've read through most of the posts on this webpage but am a little dismayed as answers are not shown to folks asking the questions.

Shouldn't the forum be open to the public to help the cause?

In Tennessee former Rainbow Girl
Jun 27, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		want to join
by: Anonymous

i'm 28 years old hope i'm not to old to join but i want to learn more and gain more wisdom from women of all ages.I'm in the North Carolina area
i would like some information so please contact me [email protected] thanks in advance.
Jun 28, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		June 20 post
by: Anonymous

To the person who posted on June 20th. What answers are you looking for?? I don't understand what you are seeking...
Jun 28, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Where Are the Answers?
by: Anonymous

For instance shouldn't the moderator show answers to the questions being posed on this board or am I missing that somewhere? I came to this page seeking answers for myself as well before I consider filling out my application. I'm just very curious about the organization OES. Maybe I should discuss with a Free Mason locally to my town.
Jun 28, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Answers...
by: Anonymous

You are correct. Questions should be answered and shared. I haven't followed every thread, but I did respond to the Young lady in my area. Maybe you should reach out to your local Chapter for answers.
Jul 08, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Answers...
by: Tim

Thank you for visiting Masonsmart and for your interest in the Order of Eastern Star.

I don't know about the other contributors to the site, so I'll just speak for myself and let them chime in if they choose to. I am not a member of the Order of Eastern Star, although I imagine my Grandma is up in Heaven, tapping her foot and wondering why I haven't yet joined the Order. As a non-member, I don't have a lot of knowledge pertaining to the OES. What little knowledge I have is common and comes from online searches of official OES Websites. My best advice regarding membership is pretty much the same for OES as it is for Blue Lodge Masonry, or any other Masonic Order: contact your local lodge, chapter, conclave, unit, etc.

As to the answers to questions not being shown, it's an open forum. All questions and answers posted are shown, unless they contain hate-speech, excessive profanity, or if they're really over the top they're moved to the Freemason Conspiracy page. While we truly appreciate those fine members of the OES who stop by and answer questions and try to help, we would love to have regular contributors to the site to answer these questions. Unfortunately, it just hasn't happened yet. Until it does, and even once it has, my best advice will remain the same: contact your local OES Chapter or OES Grand Chapter, as they will be best suited to answer questions that relate specifically to your concerns.

Thank you again for visiting Masonsmart and please do come again.

Fraternally yours,

Tim
Jul 16, 2018
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by: Bujiyun

I would like to become an eastern star but i dont know where to start. I know i have family members that are i would like more information im in charlotte nc.
Jul 22, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Membership Inquiry
by: [email protected]

I would like to join the easter star. I have been asked by several Masons that I have interacted with in the public just from me telling about my life. All of them told me I would be a good candidate due to me having discipline and the way I carry my, might I add I have never been in the military. Where do I start? I think I am at a point of my life where I can commit.
Jul 27, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Joining
by: Anonymous

I am interested in joining OES, I am from Columbus Indiana. However, I have no family affiliations who are masons. Will I still be able to join?
Aug 02, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Information
by: Cassandra

Hello my uncle was a Mason he has now passed on but I would like information on becoming a Eastern Star.
[email protected]
Aug 11, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Becoming an Eastern Star
by: Kimberly Austin

I live in Atlanta, GA, I have been interested in becoming an Eastern Star for years, I've done my research and I know that they do a lot for the community. I have no blood relatives that are members, but I do feel like I can be a great asset to the organization,I am educated, I have a degree and employed with a very successful company. Please email me and let me know if it's still possible to join
Aug 11, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Becoming a member
by: Kimberly

I live in Atlanta, Ga, I have been interesting in becoming an Eastern Star for years, I am not a blood relative of a Mason, I have no blood ties, but I feel like I can be a valuable asset to the organization. I have done my research, and I do know that this organization gives back to their community, please email me [email protected]
Aug 29, 2018
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starstarstarstar 		Can I become a member of the OES without the relationship tie?
by: Anonymous

I have been looking into becoming a freemason but soon discovered being a woman I couldn't, but then I found OES and thought it would be a good decision but my issue is my family has never been part of the freemasons. Can I still join? I live in Canada.
Please share anything you can.
[email protected]
Oct 26, 2018
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starstarstarstarstar 		Grand daughter of Masonic grandparents
by: Stephanie

As a grand daughter of both a Mason and an Easter star, may I be eligible to join the Easter Stars? My maternal grandparents were members of a Texas chapter. How do I trace my lineage and become a member? Is lineage traced by name or chapter? I am not familiar with the chapter, but my grand parents names where Kenneth and Winnifred Rayl. Alvin Texas
Jan 11, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Joining the team
by: Anonymous

Hello I been thinking and wanting to become an eastern star for some time now. I’m from the Cincinnati Ohio area and unfortunately I don’t think I have any blood relatives that are masons but my son have family memebers that are free mason and his grandmother is an eastern star. Please help point me in the right direction I’d eligible. My email address is xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Jan 11, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Anon 11 January
by: Bob

I have removed your email address - never a good idea these days.

I would suggest that you contact the Eastern Star Grand Chapter of Ohio at https://www.ohiooes.org/. They would best be able to help you.

Good luck
Feb 01, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Turned Away because of employment conflict
by: Anonymous

I would like to join but I have been blackballed for years because of conflict on my job and being a veteran I believe with a disability. Everytime I show desire I'm turned away or unanswered. I have a BS and a veteran but still have not been accepted 4 20 yrs. PH in WDC.
Feb 01, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Sorry to hear that
by: Lant

Not knowing the specifics of your case, it is of course impossible to comment further. It hardly seems likely that being a disabled vet would constitute grounds for being blackballed however.

You could always take it up at the state level and see what they say.
Feb 10, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Become an Eastern Star - Tucson, AZ
by: Anonymous

I am interested in becoming an Eastern Star. I live in Tucson, AZ on the Northwest side near Marana and Oro Valley.
Feb 10, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Thanks for asking
by: Lant

I would suggest that you contact the Arizona Grand Chapter directly. Good luck.

http://azoes.mylodgehelper.com/home/
Feb 17, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Grandmother is a Eastern Star and at 46 I like to be one .
by: Lanelle pruitt

Can you become an Eastern Star at 47 ? If so I’d like information please !
Feb 17, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Re: Lanelle pruitt
by: Tim

Dear Ms. Pruitt,
thank you for visiting Masonsmart.com.

There is no upper age limit on when one can join the Masonic fraternity. Beyond that, though, I'd have to suggest that you contact a local OES Chapter or the Grand Chapter of the Masonic jurisdiction in which you live. They will be best suited to answer your questions and provide you with the specific information you'll need. Just do a Web search for Eastern Star and include the name of your town, city, state, province, etc. I'm sure there will be helpful information and means of contact out there somewhere. If you can't find what you're looking for, come back and we'll see if we can point you in the right direction.

Congratulations on your interest in the Order of the Eastern Star, and thanks again for visiting Masonsmart.com.

Fraternally,
Tim
Aug 03, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Membership questions
by: Nita

I am interested in becoming an Eastern Star. My grandfather was a Mason, as well as my great grandfather, but both are deceased. Please advise.
Aug 04, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Probably
by: Lant

This is not a Star website, but there should be no problem, I would suggest that you contact them directly. Good luck.
Aug 18, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		EASTERN STAR
by: Anonymous

Good day all,
I live in the Bowie, Md area and have been inquiring about how I might become an Eastern Star. I served in the US Army and am looking for that family friendship based camaraderie.
I would appreciate your assistance.

Thank you!
Aug 20, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Thanks for asking
by: Bob

I would suggest that you contact the Maryland Grand Chapter at http://www.gcmd.org/.

Good luck.
Sep 07, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		It like to become an Eastern Star Godwin NC
by: Melissa MacDonald

Id like to become an Eastern Star my soon to be husband is A Master Mason from the Alexandria Virgina Lodge in DC. We live in Godwin NC. I'm 40 years of age.
Sep 08, 2019
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starstarstarstarstar 		Try this for Godwin NC
by: Bob

I would suggest that you contact the Grand Chapter for your state at http://www.oes-nc.org/.

I have removed your email address as it is unwise to post such on a public forum.

Good luck.
Jan 14, 2020
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starstarstarstarstar 		Wanting To Join??
by: Anonymous

I don’t know how to join nor am I related to any mason or eastern star which I know is a qualification.
Can someone kindly let me know what I would have to do in order to join the Eastern Stars.. I would greatly love to join.

Thank you.
Jan 14, 2020
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starstarstarstarstar 		Wanting To Join??
by: ob

It is my understanding that, to join, one must be either a Mason or related to a Mason, but there may be exceptions. I can only suggest that you contact you local chapter or grand chapter. Good luck.
Apr 11, 2020
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starstarstarstarstar 		Can I get a chance just because i wsnt to.
by: Anonymous

I want to be a psrt of this great organization i heard a great deal about. However, I have no know members in my teal family. I do know many thst are and have been members in pasding we have ment.
Is there s place for just a new member or no?
Apr 11, 2020
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starstarstarstarstar 		Thanks for asking, but...
by: Tharn

People keep asking about OES here. That's nice and we’re happy to give general advice, but each and every person asking us about the Star is at some point told, 'Talk to your local OES for better info'.

There's a reason for that. The OES is not part of Freemasonry and Freemasonry is not part of OES. They are distinct and separate bodies, with some connections. As Freemasons, members of a separate organization, we have only a passing understanding of OES rules. And every grand chapter of the OES has its own rules, sets its own policies.

So, again, we’re happy to chat.

Again, thanks for asking.

And, again, you really should talk to the OES in your area for answers to these questions.
Apr 13, 2021
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starstarstarstarstar 		so many lodges around me
by: [email protected]@[email protected]$$3$

How do I know which one is of the Eastern Star? I live in Iowa. Give me your email for details please and thank you. I would love to join. 27, here.
Apr 14, 2021
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starstarstarstarstar 		OES IOWA
by: Tharn

I would suggest your best bet is to go online and search for the Grand Chapter Order of the Eastern Star Iowa.

Good luck.

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