My wife won't agree-but I still would like to join Freemasons
I have tried everything to get my wife to support me in wanting to join Freemasons with no luck. I have had her speak to some members, she has researched it, and she still does not want me to join. I am keen to be a part of something so big and great. I love what the Masons stand for and all the people I know who are members are progressive good men.
I am tempted to join even if she does not agree, because this is something I want to be a part of. The question is, would I be able to join without her knowing or having her support? What else can i do?
I am a man that takes care of my family and I am a good husband and father.
Her dad and mother are big in the church and they have brain-washed her about the Masons. She says it is of the devil and the lodge brothers are not telling her the truth. I am frustrated and not sure what to do, as i do not want to lose my marriage but this is something I am very keen to be apart of.
Any advice would be great.