Mason Men In Marriage

by Jessica Sykes
(Dallas, Texas)

Hi, I'm currently dating a 32 year old Mason and I wanted to know, is it true all Mason men are married or have to be already married to be a member of the fraternity? (He told me he's not married by the way) And how do I become a Eastern Star in Texas?

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Jul 29, 2011
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Masons can be single
by: Anonymous

Masons have no marriage requirement at all, nor do you need to become an Eastern Star after your marriage.

Sep 13, 2011
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cheating
by: Anonymous

What are the grounds if a married mason man cheats on his wife?

Nov 27, 2011
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Masonic Marriage
by: WM Steve Grudzinski

No man whether mason or not is required to be married. The only requirement for Masonic affiliation is if a woman wants to jointhe Order of the Eastern Star. There must a mason amongst her husband, father, grandfather.

May 04, 2012
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Broken Heart
by: OES

Be very careful what you are getting yourself into I just had a bad experience with one brother in the Kings of Isreal #19 A.F. and A.M Lodge in Houston, Tx. I thought so hightly of him because I myself am a Eastern Star He claims to be studying to become a Master Mason in June. I found out that he's been cheating on myself with another sister, not sure what lodge she's in! This guy has some serious issues, biplor could be the cause and you know the saying most cowboys seem to be cheaters as well. My advice to you is good luck and be careful. If you decide to become an Eastern Star don't put your heart into the Brothers!
Sincerly

Sep 18, 2012
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Cheating Masons
by: Anonymous

Frankly, if a Mason cheats on his wife he's doing everything that he shouldn't be doing.
That man has problems...

May 05, 2014
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Masons as partners
by: Anonymous

You can't judge a man by the social/fraternal group he is associated with.

masons are tought to be honourable and respectful as hold high moral standards. (or should)

if a man cheats on his partner as mentioned above, it is true that he is doing things that aren't in the regarded as masonic

if you feel you can trust the man, and you feel connected with him, you should explore your relationship. If there are doubts based on his personality, don't.

i have been a mason for about 2 years and i love the fraternity i am part of. I am very open about my masonic commitments (although the secrets i am privy to remain for when i am with other masons).

there are things that women will discuss with their friend but never their partners, and this is no different.

Aug 24, 2014
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bad experience with masion
by: Anonymous

Iam not a masion , I dated a masion , iam and artist and gave him art oil paint who made love to me , and deceitfully implemented ,masion marrrage valued durring the love making,this was with out my knowlage,I feel violated ,the he implmated this ,and this was a style of married mason couple ,I feel violated that he did this ,he left me with no just reason ,shortly after that ,and discovered this information after he left , obvious his lodge practice is currpt ?
,It makes me sick to think that he did this

Dec 22, 2014
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by: Tharne

" Iam not a masion , I dated a masion , iam and artist and gave him art oil paint who made love to me , and deceitfully implemented ,masion marrrage valued durring the love making,this was with out my knowlage,I feel violated ,the he implmated this ,and this was a style of married mason couple ,I feel violated that he did this ,he left me with no just reason ,shortly after that ,and discovered this information after he left , obvious his lodge practice is currpt ?
,It makes me sick to think that he did this""

Wow. I am really sorry, but beyond your having had an affair with a Mason who left you, I simply cannot fathom what it is you are talking about.

If your having had a failed relationship with a Mason means to you that the entire practice of Freemasonry is corrupt, then consider that people in failed relationships have also been doctors, plumbers, artists, secretaries, merchants, firemen, pilots, university professors and a thousand other groups. Are they all 'currpt' too?

Freemasonry does not approve of extramarital affairs, nor of any other immoral act. The Craft is however - like every other group - composed of human beings, fallible individuals. To judge all by the actions of one is silly.

Aug 14, 2015
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HEY!
by: AVA

I struggled with the idea of masons, secrets, infidelity, etc, etc, if you have good communication with your husband there should be no problem on the Masonic side. Nobody is 100% honest. Find the time to connect and all will prosper.

Oct 31, 2015
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Just my Comment
by: Anonymous

It is worth saying that, and with evidence, that many of the folks in the Masonic order use this organization as means to show how giving and helpful they are to the communities, while at the same time they are faces of evil. There is one that is currently the head of the Masonic order in Florida and other southern regions, who has a hidden agendas when comes to sleeping with those ladies the are part of the order of eastern stars in Florida. This individual was recently promoted to a title and known by a title that only God is known by and that is why I will not even mention the title to avoid putting on the same pillar as God. Let us start with the most recent place that is known as acts of adultery that he has committed, in the area of Tampa Florida. This is what happens and he seems to enjoy attending the weekend conferences, in which he arranges to meet with the sisters of the order of the eastern stars in hotel rooms where the conferences are kept, and you can figure what happens there...hotel rooms. I will leave at that for now, but letting you know that the man name is (*If you wish to name this man publicly, provide proof of your accusations and have the courage to post using your own name. Sincerely, Tim)

Jan 01, 2016
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Easy to say...
by: Thane

... but extraordinary claims demand extraordinary proof.

Right now, this is nothing more impressive than a claim that Masons worship Satan.

Absent proof, piffle.

Sep 21, 2017
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i want to marry mason man
by: Irina K

Hi!
I really love the whole thing about masonry
cam you give me any advice where to find mason guys? 👀
Unfortunately I don't have any family connections;(

I am very spirited person, have read Unveiled Isis by Blavatskaya when was 16.
I am interior designer and part time yoga teacher
Live in New York)

www.aerianecohen.com

Oct 06, 2017
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I too am a star, but my Diamond 💍 Shines in Pittsburgh, but close monthly ties with Philadelphia
by: Pittsburgh Star

I am also silly as it may sound very well read on the whole Knights Templar , King of Solomon, and so on. I am extremely picky about who I’ll daze my standards are high. I would spoil a Mason Man, and in me he’d find the sexiest, classiest , adventurous in every way hallarious, home making partner he could ever desire . Anyone of you guys wanna take a shot? Oh I forgot Heart of Pure Gold.

Jan 07, 2018
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At my Wit's End is confused
by: Valerie

I have been married for 33 years to the most wonderful man that I know never cheated never went to bars after work with very loving and tender this summer I found out he was secretly a mason or had joined it I'm not sure all what it entails but now her marriage is all but over he has changed terribly will not admit he's part of that organization raises his voice and swears at me tells me everything I find on his phone to do with a Masons or other things as in other women it's all been put on his phone by me it's been a nightmare ever since I suspected that he was possibly a mason or about to join it somehow affiliated with that group it angers me so that he would keep secrets from me what happens to these men who are joining the Masons and has kept it secret from their wife wondering if they allow that in the masonry if so I'm thoroughly disgusted I have no longer treated like a loving wife I have treated almost like a dog and will not do things for me like you used to do you will not sleep with me denies being part of it but I know that he is I found a phone number to the Grand Lodge in Calgary on his phone and he seems to know a lot about it for someone who is affiliated with it at all I do not like to change sometimes I fear just going to sleep my life has been a living hell for months now I can't believe you would forfeit the good man that used to be to be a part of that organization and can't understand why it's so secret can anybody help me out

Jan 07, 2018
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Re: At my Wit's End is confused
by: Tim

Dear Valerie,

I hate to admit it, but I'm pretty confused myself. Nothing that you have said in your post above sounds...right. Masons make no secret of belonging to the fraternity. There's no need to. When a man applies to become a member, a committee is appointed to meet with him to assess his sincerity and fitness. His wife or partner is or should be invited to be present at this meeting for the purpose of answering questions and addressing concerns that she may have.

This is not a secretive organization. It is a members-only organization, like many others. Our only secrets are those designed to enable us to recognize fellow members.

I'm sorry for what's going on with you and your husband. But whatever it is, it is not Freemasonry.

I wish you the very best, and I hope you find comfort and peace.

Fraternally,

Tim

Mar 06, 2018
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I was dating a Mason...
by: Anonymous

I was dating a Mason/Steiner and he told me they were not allowed to be intimate with female relatives of Mason's, I thought it was immediate family. I found out months later that my uncle had been a Mason. I mentioned this to him and then he starts backing off on intimacy. For months he was telling me he was busy at work, but still called and we would meet and talk. Then I find out he has a woman living with him. Is it because I am the niece of a Mason? If so it still was handled badly.

Mar 14, 2018
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Re: I was dating a Mason
by: Tim

Hello Anonymous,
and thank you for visiting Masonsmart.

The man you were dating was either misinformed, mistaken, or just plain lying to you. I wish I could assure you that a man who would behave in such a manner is not a member of the Masonic fraternity, but he could be. Not all members of the fraternity are true Freemasons.

Masons are not forbidden or restricted from entering into a relationship with a female relative of another Mason. We do promise that we will not engage in any manner of illicit intercourse with a female relative of another Mason. But a loving, adult, mutually supportive and sincere relationship between a Mason and a female relative of another Mason is perfectly acceptable and not uncommon.

I'm sorry this man hurt you. He's not worth your time.

With kind regards,

Tim

Mar 16, 2018
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Infedelity
by: Anonymous

Is being infedelity a ground for a mason to be discharge from masonry?

May 08, 2018
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Cheater
by: Anonymous

What happens when a man who is a 3rd.degree mason, cheats on his wife of 24 years with a girl which started when she was 18 and he in his forties? He walked out on his wife and son for her when his wife found out? Is this someone the masons want to be associated with?

May 20, 2018
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Wow
by: Anonymous

I am currently part of the roman catholic church not by choice. But when i asked my husband why cant i confess that i am married to a master mason. His attitude change about it. No you cant. Well we are fine for the moment. But its no good to be married to a master mason because the path they are on is not a good one and i will do what i have to do to protect myself. No one will mess with my free will. Just saying.

Jul 27, 2018
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Mason in Relationship
by: Anonymous

Are there standards for mates to Masons uphold?

Nov 07, 2018
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Masonry teaches Men how to cheat and gives them cover.
by: Heartbroken

My husband of 35 years never cheated until he became a Mason. He started right after joining. They taught him to claim he was at meetings, for his affairs. This explains why it has been around for so long.

Motto should be changed to teaching men how to cheat.

Nov 13, 2018
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No
by: Tharn

I’m not sure who told you Masons teach men how to cheat on their spouses. That is entirely contrary to who we are and what we stand for. I think you need to have a long talk with hubbie. Hope it works out for you. Thane

Nov 14, 2018
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Not sure I understand
by: Tharn

"I am currently part of the roman catholic church not by choice. But when i asked my husband why cant i confess that i am married to a master mason. His attitude change about it. No you cant. Well we are fine for the moment. But its no good to be married to a master mason because the path they are on is not a good one and i will do what i have to do to protect myself. No one will mess with my free will. Just saying."

You are a member of the RC church, but not by choice? Is that it? Or is it that your husband doesn't want you to mention his Masonic status in confession? Nor is it clear what you have to 'protect' yourself from, sorry.

You are entirely entitled to you your free will, but please be more clear.

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